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Asking women out is about as scary a thing as there is for most guys. They spend a lot of time trying to figure out how to be more successful at it, and oddly enough, they spend a lot of time trying not to think about it at all. It's hard to think about scary things if you don't think you can change them. If you have no power over something then you just want it to be as far from you as possible. That's great if you're in the wild and you flee from some danger that you can't beat and just get to a new great place. But if you do it often enough then that's what you do. Cute Ways to Ask Girl Out is a new way to look at asking women out.
Guys think it's about just finding that one connection.
They are wrong.
Women want guys to ask them out… but what they don't add is that they want to be attracted to that guy. It's too risky for them to add that out loud but look at their choices… even if a choice is bad for a woman she will still make that choice if she is attracted to that guy. It's all about attraction. So when you're thinking this should be cute… cute only comes as a playful form of attraction. Without attraction it isn't cute in a sexual way, which is what a guy is after when he's asking girls out.
What can a guy do?
Well choice A, made by the majority of men in America, is to make small, inconsequential advances toward women to see if they respond, when they don't they move on. If the girl does respond then they make another… usually over and over until they are absolutely sure the girl is interested. Then they ask them out or try to get in a situation that will allow them to "make a move" and go from there.
Women don't want it that way… they have little choice… if 90% of the guys in America are going to do it that way then they are helpless against the numbers. They become victims. But they would prefer if guys were mysterious and interesting and… dare they say it… yes, sexual. But a woman only sees a guy as sexual IF she is attracted to him. This is the point that men don't understand. If they exude sex but a woman is not attracted then he becomes "creepy" or another similar word that denotes she is not attracted. Often this is because a guy thinks he is exuding sexuality but is in fact being too needy. Anytime a woman perceives needy behavior they are immediately turned off.
Avoid this at all costs!
Here's a GoArticles post about it… Cute ways to ask a girl out
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